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Final Update on Cochlear Implants

My cochlear implants were activated on August 20 to great success!  I was able to hear sound, although initially everything just sounded like high-pitched buzzing.  It was almost impossible to describe.  Every time there was a sound, it sounded like buzzing.  The volumes were set so it wasn’t too overwhelming, and I was on my way!

That first day was mostly spent trying to identify the sounds I was hearing.  Within just a few hours, the buzzing was turning into actual sounds as my brain learned how to interpret the data coming from the electrodes in each cochlea.  Voices sounded very robotic and distorted but I could hear them.  I couldn’t understand anything without lipreading though.

I go once a week for “mapping”, which means that I get connected to a computer and new software strategies are sent to my processors.  Right now I’m mainly getting more volume — I have been for one mapping since my intial activation.  My speech recognition has improved quite a lot with the newest mapping, which is amazing to me!  I can hear my cats meowing and purring, all kinds of sounds in the environment, our dog barking, even crickets outside!

Certain things are still impossible for me to understand (the telephone) or difficult (the TV).  Music doesn’t sound very good right now, although I do catch the beat of the song.

I practice with aural rehab programs, listening to words and trying to identify what I’m hearing.  It’s really quite fascinating!

I can honestly say that this technology is like an absolute miracle.  When I lost all of my hearing, I never dreamed that someday I would hear once again.  What a blessing!

Thank you to everyone who wrote with well wishes — I can’t tell you how much it means to me.  I appreciate your patience while we had to close temporarily for my surgery, recovery and then activation.  From here on in, things should proceed pretty much as normal (I hope)!

Wendi’s Cochlear Implants - View from the Back

Jar Candle Availability

Well, it was nice while it lasted! We’ve had to phase out all of the frosted jars from our Contemporary line, since the supplier we purchased from has closed down. We found a new supplier for the Metro jar (which we really do love) but it was only one size, in clear glass instead of frosted. We switched and now that supplier is also no longer carrying those jars. We only have 2 left in stock at this point and once they’re gone we’ll be down to only three types of jars in the Contemporary line.

For some reason it’s just very difficult to find the fancier glassware at affordable prices. Even the straight sided jars in our Economy line have been elusive at times; we’ve had to switch suppliers a couple of different times to keep those in stock as well.

I’ve been moving the jars over to the Limited Time Offers page when we get down to the last one, so you can check there to see if we have any special jars available.

I just wanted to explain why the jar selection has been dwindling … if it were up to us, we’d still have all the frosted jars available! :) I’m always on the lookout for new suppliers and pretty jar styles, so hopefully we’ll be able to fill that section out again soon.

In other news, my post-op visit today went well and I’m cleared for normal duties again. Yay! We’ll be closing from August 20-22, just a few days, since I’ll be getting my cochlear implants activated on August 20 (that will take up 5 hours of our day, between travel time to and from the doctor and the 3 hour visit) and then we are moving Eric to college the next day. As always though, we’ll be accepting orders during that time and we’ll start processing them on August 25. After that I don’t anticipate any closings until December, for the holidays.

Here’s a photo of Dave and I, on the way to the hospital on July 22:

Dave & Wendi

I don’t normally wear glasses, but that day I had to go without makeup and contact lenses. :)

I think that’s everything for now — have a great weekend, everyone!

Surgery went well!

Just a quick update, everyone, and then I’m back to the couch. My cochlear implant surgery went well — it took 2-1/2 hours for both ears. I was home by 2:45 pm on July 22nd!

Recovery is going nicely but I’m much more worn out than I expected to be. I spend most of the day on the couch. We are reopening on Tuesday, July 29, and Dave will be making the candles at that point. I’ll be at the computer, processing shipping labels and paperwork. Hopefully by the end of next week I’ll be up to standing and working alongside him!

Thanks for your patience. :) My activation day is August 20 and Eric moves to college on August 21, so we will probably take a long weekend off at that point. Other than that, I hope that business won’t be impacted very much as I go on my journey to hearing with cochlear implants!

All my best,

Wendi

Surgery date & upcoming closing

Just a quick update regarding our short closing this month. Surgery has been scheduled for July 22, bright and early. (Yay!) We’re going to be optimistic and assume a one week recovery period, so we’ll be closing from July 18 (Friday) to July 27 (Sun.) and we’ll reopen on Monday, July 28. (Closing a couple of days before will give us a chance to finish any orders we’re currently working on and get them shipped on Monday.)

You can still go ahead and place orders while we’re closed; we’ll start working on them on July 28, in the order they were received.

Happy 4th of July!

Deafness & Our Business

This summer will bring some changes to Contemporary Candles.

If you’ve ever read the “About Us” page, you know that Dave and I both have hearing loss. We don’t do business over the phone and we don’t do craft shows because of this — the phone is just too difficult hearing-wise and craft shows have too much background noise.

In April of this year, I lost the rest of my hearing (in my left ear — the only ear that had any hearing left). It was very unexpected and rather sudden, happening over a period of 3 or 4 days. Nobody knows why — sudden sensorineural hearing loss usually happens for unknown reasons. It wasn’t a completely new experience for me because I lost all the hearing in my right ear 15 years ago in a very similar manner. However, this most recent loss has left me absolutely, completely deaf.

Previously I managed very well with my hearing aids and lip reading. I never learned sign language because I didn’t need to use it to communicate — I could hear well enough to hold conversations as long as I could lip read as well. (That’s why the telephone posed so many problems!)

Learning sign language is a very time-consuming, long process. It’s not too hard to learn a few signs, and I can finger-spell (slowly) but to use it solely to communicate with people would take a year or more before I became adept. And everyone else in my family and the hearing world I live in would have to learn it too. So I’m learning, but since I’m not part of Deaf Culture and surrounded by people who sign, I’m not sure how much I’ll actually use sign language except with Dave (who is helping me learn, since he knows much more than I do).

In the meantime, I’ve been exploring cochlear implants (CI). A CI is like a little computer inserted into your cochlea — a tiny array of electrodes. As sound comes into the electrodes via an external microphone and speech processor, the sound is converted to data that is sent directly to my hearing nerve. That’s a really simplistic explanation (and hopefully correct — I’m just typing from memory here) but it basically is a little miracle device! I never really knew much about CI’s because I always thought you had to be completely deaf to get one, and it didn’t apply to me before.

Well, I’ve been seeing doctors and audiologists to be evaluated for a cochlear implant. I’ve had an MRI to make sure there’s no problem with my cochleas, no tumors, etc. And just a few days ago, my insurance company approved two cochlear implants for me. I’ll be one of the few people in the world that’s receiving simultaneous bilateral cochlear implants! Instead of getting one implant and then going back a few months or a year later to have the second ear done, I’ll be getting both ears done at once. I’m a little scared because the recovery will probably be rough — I won’t be able to sleep on either side, I’ll have to keep my head elevated, and I could end up with bad dizziness/vertigo as well as disturbances to my taste nerves or facial nerves. But I still feel like one surgery is better than two (and it saves money as well, having just one surgery).

Since we just found out that I’ve been approved, we aren’t sure when my surgery will be. After I have surgery, I have to wait about a month for swelling to go down and for my incisions to heal before I go for “activation”, where they actually give me the external parts of my CI’s and map the electrodes so that I can hear. So I’ll still be totally deaf while I recover.

Once I start going for mappings, my brain will need to learn how to interpret the data it’s receiving from the CI’s. I’ll never actually hear sound again, so I’ll always be deaf. But with a lot of training and auditory therapy, my brain should be able to learn how to translate the data from the electrodes into sounds. It’s going to take a lot of work but I’m ready and willing!

After I’m squared away, Dave may look into a CI as well. He’s completely deaf in one ear and now there are many people who have a CI in one ear and a hearing aid in the other. If he can receive a CI in his deaf ear, he can still use his hearing aid in his other ear, which has a severe hearing loss.

I’m talking about this now because although we’ve been able to work around the minor interruptions for the doctor visits and testing for the past few months, this summer will be different. We’ll definitely have to shut down for a while after I have my surgery, but we won’t know the exact duration until the surgery is over and we see how I’m doing. There may be times when we’ll have to shut down for a couple of days here and there, depending on how I’m feeling and how time-consuming the mapping and auditory therapy sessions are.

Of course, the website will be open 24/7 to accept orders so that’s not a problem. We’ll update order processing times here on the blog, and in your order confirmation emails as well. I’ll probably post a notice on the website before I go in for surgery, when we’ll close for at least 4 days and possibly more (as well as 2 or 3 days before I go in for surgery, to give us time to finish up any orders we currently have). Closing just means that no processing will be done on orders — you can still place orders, however.

That’s about it…wish me luck! :-)

An update on the Formerly Feral Felines

It’s now been a year and a half since we discovered the little cat family living under our deck, and they’ve made such progress.  If it weren’t for the fact that we still can’t pick them up, you’d probably never know they used to be feral.

We submitted their story to Borders for their Hopeful Tails book project, and it was accepted.  You can see a short story and sweet photo of our girls on page 79 of the book, and if you purchase a copy they will donate $1.00 to the ASPCA (through June 2008).  One funny note:  in the abridged version of their story that was published, my name was changed from Wendi to Melissa in the middle of the paragraph.  Everyone who sees the book wants to know who Melissa is!

They each have their little quirks:

Maxie loves to jump onto one of the kitchen stools when we’re cooking.  She peeks her face over the corner of the kitchen island to watch and sniff the enticing aromas, but she always stays on the stool and never tries to jump up onto the counter.

Gracie is our Flying Wallenda.  We often find her on the fireplace mantel or on top of our work oven in the workshop.  She’s the one most likely to leap from surface to surface without hesitation.  She’s also still absolutely in love with our dog, Toby!

Alice, or Ally-Cat, has finally warmed up and become extremely affectionate.  She loves to come up for chin scratches, and will flip over in a ninja roll when you start to pet her.  We’ve never seen a cat do somersaults before!

Now that the weather is slowly turning cooler, we find them lounging on our bed most days.  They tend to hang out downstairs in the summer and in our bedroom during winter.  It makes Dave a little bit nervous; he has to race Maxie into the bedroom and try to leap into bed before she gets there!  Otherwise he has to try to slip under the covers without her thinking it’s a game – a couple of times we’ve had cats attacking our toes under the covers and boy, their teeth are sharp!

Sabrina and Sugar have formed a little gang of two and are accepting the newest family members really well.  Sugar had some fun over the summer when he had to be hospitalized for a urinary blockage.  It turned into a fairly major deal and he ended up with surgery and a Perineal Urethrostomy.  The recovery period was fairly long and he had to wear an Elizabethan Collar to keep him from irritating the incision.  This absolutely terrified the New Girls and he seemed to get a little thrill out of strutting by with his collar and watching them flee in horror.  What a stinker!

We’ll leave you with a photo (this was not Photoshopped) in honor of Halloween, albeit a bit belatedly:

Boo!
Spooky Eyez

Company Cats

We haven’t ever mentioned the fact that we have a little zoo here at Contemporary Candles.

When I was a kid, my mom was not big on pets and I kept bringing home stray cats, mice that I found in the woodpile, etc. I talked her into hamsters and chameleons as household companions, but she would not allow cats or dogs. (I did have a puppy, briefly, but she gave him away when she realized the bulk of puppy care would fall to her and not me. Hey, I was 9 years old, what do you expect?!) At one point, my mother told me in exasperation that I could have a zoo when I grew up and had my OWN house. Now we laugh about that when she comes to visit, with cats winding around her ankles and a dog rolling over on his back for belly rubs.

I’ll be honest…I’m a cat person. We do have a dog, a black Cockapoo named Toby, and I love him with all my heart. If it weren’t for Dave, though, he would not be part of our household. It was Dave who took my daughter, Paige, to the county pound back in 2000 and told her they were going to look for a dog. It was Dave who picked Toby out, named him, declared him the Perfect Dog. It is now Dave who gives Toby his Neverending Haircuts, takes care of any problems in his nether regions (dingleberries, anyone?) and reassures me when Toby does Dog Things that worry and confound me. Dave is a Dog Person. I’m glad he’s a Dog Person, because our lives wouldn’t be the same without Toby. However, I don’t get dogs the same way I do cats.

When Dave and I met, back in 1998, I had one cat. His name was Bear, and he lived to the grand old age of 20 years. Dave and Bear got along famously and I think he was Dave’s first experience with a cat that was kept indoors and pampered, rather than an outdoor farm cat.

We adopted another male cat from a shelter the following year. He’s all white and his name is Sugar. We had originally intended to get a female cat, figuring Bear would accept a female quicker than a male. Sugar, however, won Dave’s heart by grabbing onto the hood of his sweatshirt jacket as he walked past the cage. We read the index card attached to the bars, and found out that Sugar had been rescued from the streets. He’d been in the shelter for 5 months and was only 7 months old, although he looked full grown. He’s partially deaf, and could only go to a home with a ‘hearing’ cat to help him along. We agreed it was a sign — after all, we’re both partially deaf and we could really relate to a partially deaf cat!

We went along like this for quite a while…Bear and Sugar the cats, Toby the dog. We even adopted 3 guinea pigs from a guinea pig rescue organization here in Illinois. (For some reason, none of our cats think of the guinea pigs as prey…they completely ignore them.)

Bear’s health deteriorated in 2005 and we had to have him put to sleep last summer. It was heart-wrenching for all of us — the kids had Bear in their lives forever, and I’d had him with me since he was just a tiny kitten. Dave & Bear had forged a bond that was truly amazing — Bear would sit on Dave’s lap, and Dave’s lap only.

We waited a month, and at the end of August Dave took me to look at cats waiting to be adopted. We had promised the kids we’d get a kitten — we figured it would be easier for Sugar to accept a kitten, and the kids had never had the experience of raising a tiny kitten before. However, I immediately fell in love with a 4 year old long-haired black female cat. I couldn’t help but return to her cage again and again — the kittens were cute, but something about her just drew me in. Dave declared her my birthday gift and we brought her home. We named her Sabrina and she fit into our family immediately — she is by far the friendliest, most laid-back cat I’ve ever owned.

Within the past year, we’ve noticed a stray cat in our neighborhood. We assumed it was a male. We first noticed it walking on top of the wooden privacy fence between our home and our next-door neighbor’s. As we watched this little cat do an amazing balancing act, I declared to the family that I wanted that cat…it was meant to be with us…after all, it was black and white, which is a combination of our current two cats (Sugar, all white, and Sabrina, all black). We made jokes about having only monochromatic animals, and everyone began to humor me when I made noises about wanting to bring this cat into our home. After all, we had no idea if it was truly a stray/feral cat or if it was somebody’s pet that was allowed outdoors.

As the weather warmed up, this black and white cat started showing up by our patio door. We sometimes set a plate of cat food outside on the deck, and this cat figured out that a free meal was available. We began feeding it, called it ‘Max’ and would all gather around to watch as it polished off each plate of food.

In mid-May of this year, our lawn had grown to jungle proportions and Dave went under our deck to retrieve the lawn mower. The deck is enclosed, and as he opened the doors he was met with a surprise: there was ‘Max’ under the deck, along with two tiny kittens. We realized Max was a girl, and the reason we’d been seeing her on a daily basis was because she was living under our deck.

We spent about 2 weeks going under the deck to feed the cats, sitting on old crates quietly until the kittens would come out of hiding and begin eating. We brought down an old litter box, an old cat bed, blankets, food and water. We rarely saw Maxie (her new, more feminine name) but the kittens began to get used to our presence. Since they were eating solid food, we figured they were 5 or 6 weeks old. We named the grey and white kitten ‘Smokey’ and the black and white kitten ‘Boots’, for its white paws.

We found this all fairly amusing — we had promised the kids we’d still get a kitten, if the time was right and the right situation presented itself. We had to admit that having 2 kittens pretty much drop into our laps seemed very much like a sign!

On top of discovering the kittens, we also began to have a problem with tomcats coming into our yard. More than once we found them looking into the windows of our candle workshop, and they were always in and out of the yard. We would see them chasing Maxie through neighborhood yards. Eventually, one of them took to waiting on the deck near the entrance Maxie was using to get in and out (since she hadn’t mastered opening the deck doors with her paws!) which made us very nervous. We had no idea if they were going to try to harm the kittens.

One morning we went down to feed the cats and saw a large amount of grey fur outside the deck door. This fur looked exactly like Smokey’s fur, and we were certain that a tomcat had gotten in and killed one or both of the kittens. We had been planning to eventually trap the kittens and bring them indoors, and this pushed our plans into high gear. We ended up emptying everything out from under the deck, hoping and praying that what we found wouldn’t be heartbreaking.

We’d cleared the deck entirely and found no sign of any of the cats. At that point I was convinced Maxie had moved the kittens to another location. There was only one item remaining under the deck — a large platform ladder. Dave lifted it up and both kittens shot out!

We were able to coax both of them into cat carriers, then we moved them into a large crate in our garage. The next day we set the crate on the deck, using the kittens as ‘bait’ (how horrible that sounds!) and were able to catch Maxie as well. All 3 cats were okay, although Maxie had an obvious fight wound on her side.

All three cats went to the vet the next week. We found out that both kittens are girls, so we renamed them: the grey/white kitten is Gracie, and the black/white kitten is Alice. They were in remarkably good health, with no worms, fleas or ear mites. They were started on their round of vaccinations and we are very, very slowly working on socializing them. Gracie is much more friendly — she will come up to us, let us pet her, pick her up, etc. She’s completely fascinated by Toby and loves to walk up and sniff him. Alice is very timid and will run away if we approach her. However, at the vet’s office she is the calm one and Gracie is the hissing, spitting wildcat!

Maxie is my little sweetpea. She will come up to us, rub her head on us and let us pet her. We’ve not attempted to pick her up. She has come a long way in a short time, though! She used to swipe at us and hiss if we came near. Now she sits calmly even when Toby, Sabrina or Sugar is with us.

Our new Company Cats, (Maxie, Alice & Gracie) are now living in the candle workshop. They have access to the main house and we’ve found them on the landing of the stairs, but so far they haven’t ventured into the house very often. Our other animals go into the workshop all the time so everyone is slowly getting used to each other.

Maxie has been spayed and her abscess was cleaned up and stitched closed. She finished her antibiotics and is completely healed now. Our goal for the future is to trim her nails — her nails are razor sharp! I think I’ll wait until she lets me hold her before I bring out the nail trimmers though. :)

That’s the story of our little zoo…5 cats, 2 guinea pigs and 1 dog.

Gracie, Alice & Maxie

Quick Update

We had planned to post much more in February but we’ve all been sidelined by the flu.  Dave came down with it on Friday, the 17th and is still recovering.  In the meantime, both kids got sick and now this morning I’ve woken up with the telltale aches, sore throat and exhaustion.  Whew!

We’re getting orders out in the usual 3 to 4 business day timeframe, but not much earlier than that.  For instance, an order placed on Friday or Saturday won’t begin the processing stage until Monday (the next business day) and will probably ship on Thursday or so.  Usually we are faster than this but it’s all we can do to keep things going at all — please bear with us.

Hopefully starting in March we’ll be able to put up the articles and information we had planned for this blog — we’ve got lots of great ideas!